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EMDR Specialities in Singapore and online worldwide

Stress, Anxiety & Burnout

For high-functioning individuals who are emotionally exhausted, anxious, or stuck in survival mode.

  • Generalized anxiety and overthinking

  • Panic attacks and social anxiety

  • Chronic stress and perfectionism

  • Emotional burnout, insomnia, over-responsibility

​EMDR Focus: Reprocessing pressure-linked memories, “not safe to rest” beliefs

CBT Integration: Stress coping tools, thought restructuring, behavioral pacing

For clients carrying pain from the past — whether it's shock trauma, developmental wounds, or relational injuries.

  • Trauma & PTSD (single-incident or complex)

  • Childhood trauma and attachment wounds

  • Grief, loss, and emotional breakups

  • Abusive, toxic, or controlling relationships

  • Shame, guilt, or deep self-criticism

​EMDR Focus: Memory reprocessing, nervous system regulation, closure

CBT Integration: Building new narratives, tracking triggers, self-talk correction

Self-Worth, Identity & Motivation

For people feeling lost, stuck, disconnected from purpose or struggling with confidence and action.

  • Procrastination and fear of failure

  • Low self-esteem and imposter syndrome

  • Career blocks and life transitions

  • People-pleasing, indecisiveness, over-adaptation

  • Lack of motivation or internal permission to succeed

EMDR Focus: Targeting core limiting beliefs (“I’m not enough”, “I’ll fail”), early shame experiences

CBT Integration: Goal setting, value clarification, habit loops, exposure work

Relationships & Social Fears

For those struggling with connection, boundaries, trust, or fear of judgment.

  • Social anxiety and fear of being seen

  • Fear of rejection or abandonment

  • Difficulty with intimacy and vulnerability

  • Conflict avoidance, people-pleasing, isolation

  • Past relational trauma (family, romantic, group)

EMDR Focus: Healing relational wounds, detangling fear-based social patterns

CBT Integration: Social skills training, assertiveness practice, belief testing

Career Clarity, Performance & Work Psychology

For professionals, leaders, creatives, and career-changers facing internal blocks, transitions, or performance pressures.

  • Career uncertainty, decision paralysis, or loss of motivation

  • Fear of interviews, public speaking, or leadership roles

  • Impostor syndrome and perfectionism

  • Workplace conflict, toxic environments, or professional trauma

  • Burnout, disengagement, or “I don’t know what I want anymore”

  • Shame after failures, rejections, or career disruptions

  • Blocks around money, visibility, or “being seen” in your work

EMDR Focus: Targeting core limiting beliefs (“I’m not enough”, “I’ll fail”), early shame experiences

CBT Integration: Goal setting, value clarification, habit loops, exposure work

Leadership, Influence & Organizational Psychology

For founders, executives, team leads, and changemakers navigating complex emotional and strategic challenges in leadership and business environments

  • Leadership stress, burnout, and role overload

  • Fear of visibility, public failure, or decision-making under pressure

  • Impostor syndrome at the executive level

  • Emotional blocks around authority, control, or delegation

  • Difficult conversations, conflict avoidance, and fear of confrontation

  • Traumatic professional experiences (e.g. layoffs, crisis leadership, PR failures)

  • Identity shifts during scaling, transitions, or exits

  • Balancing performance with personal life and internal alignment

EMDR Focus:

  • Reprocessing past high-stakes leadership failures or public setbacks

  • Clearing emotional charge around visibility, criticism, or difficult decisions

  • Addressing unresolved patterns around control, perfectionism, or self-worth

CBT Integration:

  • Strengthening confidence, assertive communication, and executive presence

  • Reframing distorted beliefs like “I must always be in control” or “I’m only valuable when succeeding”

  • Cognitive tools for boundary-setting, burnout prevention, and strategic decision-making

© 2025 Ily Tsare, accredited EMDR and  CBT therapist, career counsellor, and business psychologist. Ily works with individuals from Singapore, the United Kingdom, United States, EU, Australia, UAE and beyond.

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